Showing posts with label Women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Women. Show all posts

Thursday, 28 May 2015

Share & Care - L'Oréal Style

Diva I am not although one of my Guest Authors on this blog tries her best to get me to change my ways. My taste for stylish clothes is well up there with the more than average-dressed woman. However shopping for those outfits is not my cup of tea. 


What I do enjoy doing when it comes to the feminine, 'diva-esque' look, is make up. 

Over the years, I have developed my own style of makeup application. It runs along the same lines as my dress style - simple and, if I may say so myself, elegant.


Choosing a brand of make up was the trick. Growing up borderline poor, my choices were limited to my pocketbook. Hand me down make ups from older and employed female friends were my first. As my income increased and my knowledge of makeup application, my skin and what enhances my looks, I bought better quality of maquillage.


Aside from temporarily jumping on the bandwagon protesting the reported racial discriminatory practices of a manufacturer of body care products, I never gave much thought to the human resources practices of cosmetic companies. It just was not part of my decision making when it came to finding the correct rouge or lipstick.
  


That will now change.


After writing about InHerSight - a website and resource that supports women in or entering the workforce with information regarding the best practices of employers - I came across the report on L'Oréal yesterday.

Tuesday, 19 May 2015

Resource For Women, Work & Wellness: InHerSight

Thirty-three years. That is how long it took for me to experience it. Thirty-three years.


A couple weeks ago my daughter and I were having this conversation. This topic would come up again over the long weekend as I returned home from grocery shopping.


Women, work and wellness.


My daughter is returning to the labour force shortly. She has been on maternity leave for almost a year now. Struggling with the pull of wanting to stay home longer with her baby, my joy and light Mahalia who I also affectionately call Kitten, my daughter cannot afford that option. Well, not if she wants to maintain the standard of living that she has grown accustomed to and enjoys.


Her employer sent her an email a couple weeks ago to come in for a "return to work" meeting. My "spidey" sense told me that things were about to change but I said nothing to her.


After the meeting, she came to my place and from the look on her face I knew my spider was on target. Not one to wallow for more than a minute, I did not indulge her. Instead, she was given the same advice I would give to any woman faced with the options before her. It was advice that took me 33 years to formulate.


"Find something else that is moving you to where you want to be but offers you balance with your child and family life."


When Abigail told me the details of her post maternity meeting, I did what I always do when faced with choices. I launched a hunt for information, assessed it and presented her with my findings. That way, she made an informed decision.


Unfortunately, too many women do not have that option or they do not know where to look. Worse yet, too many choose not to or their circumstances seemingly force them to make decisions that unbalances their lives for a long time.


One of the tools that I came across and that I would encourage more women to utilize is InHerSight.  My lead to this website was BlogsRelease, a resource for bloggers like myself.


According to its website, InHerSight allows women to "check how potential employers treat women." They are "on a mission to measure how well employers support the women who work for them — and to turn those insights into better support for women in the workplace."


I say it is about darn time this was available.

Canada is a beautiful country with many opportunities for growth, development and prosperity. Yet, like in many so called developed countries, many are also falling between the cracks. As I researched the return to work practices of many companies, it was shocking to note that despite the generous maternity leave benefits offered through social services, an equal amount of women are finding it challenging to get back to their former positions.


Wellness, as I discussed in my previous posts is way more than fitness of body. Peace of mind about one's living and working space has a direct impact on the wellness of women. For 33 years, my working life did not support my healing journey. In fact, several of my past employers were more detrimental to my physical and emotional health than the junk food I ate.


A mother having to return to work, already anxious about separating for extended periods from her child, ought not to be further burdened by the thoughts of job insecurity.


Indeed any woman ought not to be so concerned about the practices of her employer as it relates to her gender and the natural occurring needs associated with being woman that her wellbeing is compromised.


How does your current or past employer stack up when it comes to women, work and wellness? Check out InHerSight and see the best practices of those who appreciate the value of women in the workplace. You may want to add your two cents worth on the site.


I am happy to report that my daughter took my advice and will return to work soon with an organization that offers her work/life balance, managerial experience, upward mobility and a fair salary!


Have a well day and be sure to visit us at our new home.  

Blessings,

Claudette

Some photos sources:  
inhersight.com
pinterest.com

Information regarding InHerSight was sourced through BlogsRelease 

Tuesday, 8 July 2014

Women? Fight Against Each Other? No...

Claudette Esterine
The idea that women “fight against” each other is such an ancient one that it has become somewhat like a law of life or rules of the game, so to speak. I am not sure where it has its roots or whether it is a mythical or psychological tale that someone spun many years ago that we have managed to perpetuate.

One thing that I know for sure is that this pattern of behavior: backstabbing, pulling at each other’s skirt tails, attempting to drag a Sistah off the proverbial ladder has marred and scarred so many of us. In my own experience, women were never considered to be my friends for a very long time but someone to compete with for limited resources. Whether it was the affection of a man or a coveted promotion, I practised and mastered (I hate to admit) the art of “women being our own worst enemies.”

A demure woman was the first to begin tutoring me to change my attitude. She reminded me that all my behaviour towards another is a reflection of, not their, but my demons.

Really?

Yes, really and as the years went by and the lessons deepened and expanded I began to understand the truth of this lesson. Learning to love myself, to erase as best as I could the recording of the most significant woman in my life, my mother, putting me down, my wings grew and my heart expanded.

Today, as I prepare to take on the mantle of Matriarch of my family, I know that some of the most important lessons that must be passed on to my granddaughter:
  1. Self-love and self-respect
  2. Cooperation over competition
  3. Truth and honour above all else
What about you? What will be your legacy? What story will you be telling of woman- and sister-hood.
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Namaste.

Saturday, 21 June 2014

Women: Still Without Equal Pay - DOS Weekly

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The 22nd edition of DOS Weekly and centuries since they have been talking about gender-pay equity!

Women work just as long and just as hard as men but in some places in our world, they earn $0.70 or less on every dollar a man gets. Some United Kingdom business leaders are talking about it again and we share highlights in our featured story

DOS Foundation and this weekly is dedicated to empowering every woman and our stories this week reminds us of the continuing plight of 200+ Nigerian girls who remain captive. Also in Africa, we feature the latest news on the dreaded Ebola disease; and turn attention to several stories making news in the rest of our world.

Other carefully selected stories for you our readers cover career, women's health and general interest articles.

Do enjoy reading these and we thank you for your continued support. Consider subscribing to DOS Weekly and get notification once the paper is hot off the keyboard!

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Saturday, 7 June 2014

Keep Gender Stereotyping Out Of Raising Kids! DOS Weekly

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This is the 20th edition of DOS Weekly and we mark this milestone with a story about gender stereotyping.  DOS Foundation and this weekly is dedicated to empowering and uplifting women and our feature story speaks to the effects of "boxing" the human spirit.

"Keep Gender Stereotypes Out Of Raising Kids," the success of women's films at the box office and stories on important women's health issues were carefully selected for you our readers around the world.

Do follow us on Twitter as well as *Like* our Facebook page.  Have a blessed weekend and join us on Monday for more interestint, informative and inspiring articles!

Namaste

Saturday, 10 May 2014

The State of the World's Mothers - DOS Weekly

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Our Weekly is out! 

The "State of the World's Mothers - Save the Children" is our centerpiece for Mother's Day, highlighting women and children around the world. 

An update on the story of the kidnapped Nigerian is also included in this the sixteenth edition of our Weekly. Also, check out our new environment section. 

We thank you for your continued support and invite you to stay connected with us throughout the weekend on our Facebook page and/or through Twitter.


Saturday, 26 April 2014

Why Prison Isn't Working For Women - Daughters of Sheba Weekly

It is Saturday, April 26 and thank you for reading DOS Weekly where we carefully select stories to meet the interest of women all over!

Stories such as “Why prison isn't working for women,” which is the highlight of this the fourteenth edition of our Weekly.

Other stories this week focus globally on education, gender equity issues and health, our regular travel and our leisure stories for women.

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Namaste

Saturday, 5 April 2014

Young People Don't See Women Automatically As Human Beings - DOS Weekly




“Young People Don't See Women Automatically As Human Beings,” says political writer and analyst Zerlina Maxwell. 

Her story headlines this the eleventh edition of our Weekly and as always our stories are carefully selected to meet the interest of women all over! 

Some of the stories this week focus on women’ health: “Thyroid Symptoms in Women” and wellbeing: “Simple Ways To Feel Happier Today.” 

We thank you for your continued support and again invite you to subscribe to DOS Weekly and get notification once the paper is hot off the keyboard. 

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Saturday, 29 March 2014

Can Boys Be Coerced Into Sex? - Daughters of Sheba Weekly 10th Edition

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This is the 10th edition of our Weekly and as always our stories are carefully selected to meet the interest of women all over! Our featured story and in fact our headline stories this week focus on sex and sexuality.

The main story asks the question: “Can Boys Be ‘Coerced’ Into Sex?” and points to the results of a new study, “which reveal that they are being coerced into sex by girls and young women, will surprise many.

Continuing in this vein, we also highlight stories and reports on porn and empowerment, the future of sex and travel, health and leisure activities for women. Read it here


Wednesday, 26 March 2014

What Is It: Cheap Politics, Power Tripping or Real Empowerment?



Today's post is an audio blog. Listen here.

Transcript: 

I grew up at a time when political activism, tension and awareness was at its highest in Jamaica.

My mother was an activist of the meanest order. She and a group of women in my and the surrounding communities were what you call stalwarts of their political party.

It was nigh impossible for me not to have been affected by the fervour for democracy, equality, justice for all and more so for us as citizens of the so-called Third World.

I was attending political rallies, helping with "canvassing" in our constituency, assisting behind the scenes at polling stations from the tender age of 10.

Little wonder that by my18th birthday, not only was I a member of the youth arm of the party but was co-chair of an important mobilization committee. Later years would find me working in the communications machinery during elections, as well as contracted as the campaign publicity officer on several candidates' campaigns including senior ones currently in the government of Jamaica.

By the time my family and I migrated to Canada, the politics-fatigue was beginning to set in. Why? My motivation in anything that engages me is to help others, to bring about and/or support meaningful change in people's lives.

While much had changed in Jamaica between the advent of the Right Honorable Michael Manley and our migration in early 2000's, fundamentally the mentality of the majority of my beloved Jamaica had not.

Dependency was and remains the singular most debilitating and disturbing, to me, characteristic of too many Jamaicans. The notion that politicians are demi-gods perpetuated through a culture of hand-outs and creation of sycophants, have kept my country people looked in a dance that has long lost its appeal.

Over a decade in Canada has done little to revive my confidence that people who have entered politics will recall that they are there to serve the country and not their personal agenda and power trip.

The arrival or should I say coming of Barack Obama to international fame and presidency of his nation admittedly excited me. No, not because he's an African-American but because of his message if hope and change.

I switched off my television and stopped reading newspapers two years now when the hope was hijacked and the change crashed. It was so funny the other evening when my friend almost fainted when I remarked, "Oh, John Kerry is Secretary of State?"

My politics now, my passion is Love. I really liked that quote by Grace Paley where she says:" ... people will sometimes say, "Why don't you write more politics?" And I have to explain to them that writing the lives of women is politics."

The lives of women, my life is my politics. Creating and supporting a community of sisters who uplifts, empower each other on the principles of unconditional love, inclusivity and non-judgment is my way of doing politics.

Is my way the best or only way? I don't know and it probably is not. It however is my way, my way of being a center and channel of peace and love.

That, I believe is the best and only way for us as humanity to truly be at peace, to respect our differences and to resurrect hope and maybe, just maybe bring about change in a world hungry for it.